Joe & Kevin Are Getting “Married”

by Stacy L. Harp on July 10, 2008

UPDATE TWO – Dr. Kevin needs some happy pills or something because he sure knows how to twist things and doesn’t apparently see the world as a cup half full. As usually he gets snippy when he writes about me, and of course he is bringing up about how I said I would try not to write about him anymore…

Well, here’s a newsflash – Kevie…I’m a woman and have a right to change my mind. But that aside, why is it that Kevie doesn’t acknowledge my apologies that I posted MONTHS ago when he swore up and down I would NEVER apologize???? Oh, and why does Kevie not respond to my kind post about his tomatoes being stolen from his garden…it’s really because he doesn’t have anything nice to say, and can’t find it in his heart to simply be nice and kind to me for even an ounce of a second. Despite how HE LIED? HEH :) Yeah, the man is silent when he knows he’s wrong…but a woman never forgets.

Kevin, you need to LIGHTEN way up man. Take a chill pill, relax and unwind. It’s apparent your wedding nerves are getting to you. (Grrr) :)

UPDATED 7/10/08 – I just read Joe’s Twitter updates and he wants me to tell you that he had a big ceremony in 2005. He even links to a picture of him with Rick. You can see that by clicking the link. So, I guess getting hitched for Joe once wasn’t enough :) He has to do it again!

Well actually, not to each other, and really not in God’s eyes because God doesn’t bless male to male unions. (Or female to female ones) But ever since the unbelievable judicial ruling here in California that “legalizes” homosexual unions, more homosexual activists are going public about their upcoming nuptials.

A few days ago Dr. Kevin Kaatz announced on his blog that it was “official” that he is getting “married” . Here’s what he wrote:

bridegroom

Well, It’s Official!!!

We just settled the date for our wedding, and it will by on Friday, July 18 at 3:30 pm!!! That is in about three weeks. It is going to go by quickly. We can only have six guests for the ceremony at the San Francisco City Hall. Doug’s parents are coming and we’ll be asking 4 of our friends to join us. We’ll also have a house warming/reception at our place on Sunday. It should be a busy weekend! I am hoping that we will be going away for 4 days after that and that will leave us a couple of weeks before we head up to Idaho for Doug’s family reunion. And then I will be off to Michigan to see my family for a bit before teaching starts up again.

Now, I’m not a party pooper but one would think that if the upcoming “marriage” was so important to these guys, they would take more time to plan their wedding. When Randall and I got married we had an 8 month engagement and planned out all the details to our wedding. We had about 200 people come, flowers, balloons, a nice reception, church ceremony, rehearsal dinner, bridal shower, bachelor party – in other words, the whole works.

It seems to me that Dr. Kevin here is rushing into his marriage without all the necessary preparations that make a wedding special. How boring to get “married” in city hall with 4 friends and Doug’s parents. What about his parents…? Don’t his parents think this event is important enough to fly from Michigan to California to see their son “marry” another man?

And of course, what about the CAKE? The cake is the best part of the reception. I remember my cake, it was delicious.

And then of course, there is Joe Brummer, who just announced today on Twitter that he and his partner Rick are going to get “married” this coming Tuesday at 9 AM. Here’s what he wrote:

making it legal. Rick and I applied yesterday for a marriage license in Mass. We will be married on Tuesday at 9:AM. Yeah us!

Again…what’s the hurry here? Don’t you guys have time to make proper plans for a nice wedding. After all, isn’t this something you’ve fought really long and hard for? If it was me, I would be making sure I had a HUGE party and wedding. I’d invite hundreds of people (well, actually I did do that) and make sure the whole world knew I was one million percent committed to my man.

So my point – the point is obvious, and I think you can see it clearly.

And what a bummer that the wedding march where a woman marches down the aisle and people are thinking, “here comes the bride, all dressed in white”, won’t be played. That’s another thing that is great about weddings. And I remember when I was all dressed in white and the music started to play and the whole congregation stood to honor me and I walked down the carpeted aisle toward my groom. It was a great moment in my life. In fact, my wedding day was a day that will live in my heart forever.

Which brings me to my final comment here. I think male to male weddings are discriminatory to brides, dresses and women all over the world. There should be a law against two men being able to marry…..oh WAIT…there IS! :)

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